Are you REALLY sorry?

repentance


Is an apology good enough for your sins?

True repentance and confession requires information, understanding, sorrow for sins, and acting upon that sorrow.

Most false conversions occur when people do not understand what is required for salvation, and are not instructed properly by the church, when they express interest.

They have no clue what sin really is, what harm and damage they have done, what sorrow for sins really is, and the pulpit message is only about the blessings of God.

Repentance becomes a vague regret of mistakes made in life, yet one is still drawn to the life they led.

The person feels apologetic, although they do not consider themselves a bad person, just someone who could use God’s help in their life to make it better on earth.

It does not take long for them to go back to what they were doing wrong, because they don’t see anything wrong to begin with.

An apology is not enough. A vague regret is not enough.

You have to be sincerely sorrowful, realize the evil in what you have done, and be convicted to never do it again.

You will make an effort to know what sin is, what behaviors are sin, and how to avoid them.

You will do a complete turn around in your life, give your heart to God, obey Him with all your heart, mind, and strength.

It will break your heart to disobey God now. You see the reality of sin as a horror to you, and do not even want to associate with those who live in it.

You will see every act of disobedience as crucifying Christ all over again. You will see your sins nailing Him back to the cross. Out of love, you cannot stand this thought. You could never do this to Him again. Your love for Jesus will rule your actions.

The Holy Spirit will guide you, not your flesh.

Not even negative circumstances, or the threat of death, will make you deny Christ as Savior and Lord, or motivate you to give up and go back to sin.

Self check:

Are you really saved? Be sure you have met these basic requirements. Make sure you have not been deceived into thinking you are saved, when you are not.

Be a true convert to Jesus, not a false one. Take the time to examine your life, and come up to God’s standards for holiness and commitment.


11 Responses to “Are you REALLY sorry?”

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  2. Well said, Marianne. Many looking at Christianity choose to compare themselves with others, and decide they at least measure up to them. We all fall short of the glory of God, and to use that as a measuring stick is folly. It would mean we are depending on our goodness, and not on what Jesus did for us on the cross.

    I admit that my seeing my sin was not very deep at my first coming to Jesus, but in time, He made certain I knew how depraved I was. Fortunately, His grace at my naive early repentance was just the start. DavWms

  3. Hi Marianne,

    Your question is: ‘are you really sorry for your sins?’
    When Nineveh felt sorry for their transgressions they sat in
    SACKCLOTH AND ASHES!!!
    I haven’t seen anyone yet in sackcloth and ashes.
    So my answer to your question is:’NO!’

    But I would suggest it a Godly way to repent now …
    Before we are forced to sit in ashes wearing only rags!!

    How great would it be to see a nation, an entire people
    so sorry for their wicked ways
    that they would kneel down in godly repentance in sackloth and ashes!
    How great would it be to see a genuine people of God
    humbling themselves before their Creator!

    I suggest we do this …. while we still have some time.

  4. p.s.

    And a question we should also all ask ourselves in honesty …
    ‘Would you sell the Lord for 30 pieces of silver???’

  5. Or $20.00? What about $40.00? How about $100.00?
    What price is your Savior worth??
    Until we know the answer to this question we do not value Him.
    HE, THE LORD IS PRICELESS!!!!

  6. Excellente!

  7. Hi Marianne, i do agree with you and i like your blog about this.

    Am i really sorry for my sins?? i think, sometimes i really sorry with my sins. I’m afraid that Jesus hates me because of my sins, and also He don’t wanna accept me.
    People made me sad and angry, they said:’you’re nothing’, that’s the reason why i always feel that i’m nothing.

    Marianne, my life really hard…

    • Hi Esther,

      A beautiful name. Jesus does not hate you for your sins. He forgives you, if you are sorry. He died to take your punishment for sins, so you would not have to suffer.

      He did this because he loves you. Just trust Him, and he will take care of you.

      You are not “nothing.” You are very precious to Him. You were specially created by God to spend forever in heaven with him. There is a beautiful heaven waiting for you.

      Remember that God make you, not people. His opinion of you is more important than what people say. In your heart, forgive people who are mean.

      They do not have God’s love, and they are unhappy inside. So they hurt others because they have hurt in themselves.

      So just be patient, and trust God for the love you need.

      • Thanks Marianne for your attention, it’s really helpful for me ..
        I will remember that, and i’m waiting your other blog. I’m blessed by your blog, Have a great day dear!!! God Bless :)

  8. dear marianne,
    i have been sorry for all my sins and for the future sins that i may commit. I am just human. What is impt is that we sholdn’t make being “just a human” an excuse to commit future sins. Sorry is not enough, as the saying goes..” actions speaks louder than words. ” Sometimes i have this idea of not criticizing other religion but instead concentrate on mine and initiate peace amongst my neighbours irregardless of race and religion and for the rest of humanity to follow thru.

    Regards,
    miranda

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