Jezebel in Children
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Jezebel in children will show up as rebellion and lying. They are influenced by other children they meet at school. This is serious and must be dealt with.
It will take both parents, or a male and female parent figure, to effectively deal with it. The child will need consistent discipline, and moral training. This is a daily and weekly thing, not just when the child acts up.
Question the child about what they have heard and answer the issues. You need to know what someone else is indoctrinating them with. Remember public schools are very pro-abortion, sex rules in school, even in the lower grades. Schools are godless now. You cannot even trust the teachers, at times. We have reports now of teachers raping or having sex with children, so you have to be on your toes.
If you are a single parent with no one to help, you are going to have a long, uphill battle, and you will lose it. You need to find someone to help you – even if it is just a friend – to back you up. Anyone is better than no help at all.
Make sure whoever helps you has good morals, and is self-disciplined. Do not pick someone who will make things worse, because they have self-control issues themselves.
A pastor can be involved to reinforce what the parents are doing.
A psychologist is a last resort, but only if it is a Christian counselor. Most psychologists are humanists, and may actually encourage the behavior since humanism is based on individual choice, rather than submission to divine authority.
Pray blessings over your child. Let your child hear this. They need to know, even during their rebellion, that there is a better way to be, than the way they are. Be patient. It might take years, because whatever you do at home could be reversed at school. Changing schools may not help, but you can try.
Each day, try to inspire the child with a desire toward higher moral and behavioral standards. Tell them how Jesus loves them, how you love them, and how they will do wonderful things someday to help others find Jesus, and his love.
Continue to bless them. Pay attention to them daily. What they are looking for is love. Maybe you are too busy for them. Make time for them on a consistent basis. Use discipline, be firm, but loving.
Best wishes. Do not give up – ever!! This is your child. If you give up, then who can they depend on to help them?
Also, remember that we are in the end times. It was predicted that we would have this kind of problem. Prayer and unity in the family is important. You are fighting a spiritual enemy for the welfare of your child.
2Ti 3:1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
2Ti 3:2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
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Jezebel in Children « Heaven Awaits said this on April 17, 2008 at 10:07 am |
This is a interesting article. Can you point me to more information on this. I believe I have a child(17yrs old) that may have the Jezebel spirit. She displays many traits of the Jezebel, I was just watching a series of videos about the Jezebel and I’m like wow, this really describes my daughter. I knew while I was pregnant with her that she would be very different. She has been diagnosed with various mental health issues; Bi-polar, ADHD, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, Conduct Disorder. She may have these issues but I believe its something more. I tried counseling with my previous pastor but she hates him because he can see right through her. If she’s not confronted then she’s fine with you. I have been battling with her since she was 2 yrs old. If it wasn’t for people praying for me and her, and my strength from the Lord, I wouldn’t of made it this far. Plenty of times I wanted to kill myself because it was a daily battle and was very draining. I had other children to protect and take care of also. Right now she isn’t living with me, and we have a much better relationship. We can talk and spend time together without constant conflict. When she starts being manipulative/controlling/ect, I just leave her or hang up the phone. She has a boyfriend and I feel sorry for him because she is really running all over him, treating him really bad. I haven’t given up on her and I know that she has a high calling on her life. She will become a mighty woman of God.
Hi LaWanda,
You definitely have a Jezebel spirit to deal with. Much is the fault of this culture, which teaches girls (and boys) to rebel against authority, and do what they want concerning the opposite sex. They go to school and unlearn everything the parents teach them. Sin is all around them. Sin and rebellion is “normal.”
It definitely is hell to deal with, because these girls (boys too) do not return the love and respect you need, so you feel like you are wasting your time.
She needs to be in a controlled environment where she is constantly confronted with her behavior, until she breaks.
Where is she? Everyone that cares for her needs to be involved. You will get an email with this response. Please write back, and tell me more. The emails are confidential, and do not show up on the website. She is already 17, and this needs to be dealt with in the next year. Once she reaches 18, she will be totally wild and it will be her legal right.
blessings
marianne
Need help, prayer, & guidance. This is a very complicated matter. My husband had a previous marriage. The gal’s mother he married ended up marrying his father. So, my husband’s step mother (and my step-mother-in-law) is also my husbands x-wife’s mother. BOTH of them have a Jezebel. Can’t go into details. My step daughter is now 14. We attempted to get custody 4 years ago & they all but destroyed her in gaining control of her. She is wanting to live with us again & the papers were almost signed by the judge when they bullied, guilted, her manipulated her, & threatened her. She has backed down again & is reverting back to old behavior we thought we were helping her get through. I can tendencies of Jezebel in my step-daughter too but when she gets away from mom & grandma….she grows & blossoms. BUT, they refuse, to allow her wishes to come lives with us. Long long story. Very frustrated. And I’m looking for someone who has encountered this spirit closely and for some godly counsel I am seeking!!
Linds,
You are right. You certainly have a complex situation. It sounds like the girl still would like to live with you? I guess I have too many questions.
Has a social worker investigated the case yet?
Maybe at 14, she is old enough to make the decision to stay with you, where she is safer, then the others can petition to get her back. I am not sure of the rules. Check with social services.
She has to leave the house to go to school. Maybe she could just come to your house afterwards. You can then arrange for a social worker consult, once she is with you.
Is this petition for custody filed by you, or the girl? The girl could sign a statement for the court that she withdrew under duress the first time, and that they are threatening her, and she wants immediate removal from their premises.
Can you get her alone and encourage her to file again, with the addition of a complaint of endangerment?
let me know. you will get this response in email form. You can write back to me, and we can take it from there.
blessings
marianne
Boy, Life for some can be complicated!
I too believe my 5 and a half year old daughter has a Jezebel spirit. It was also found that I had the Ahab spirit as the two generally go hand in hand. It’s like they are co-dependent. We were delivered of said spirits, but it seems like they are still with us. As I am fairly new to Spiritual Warfare I cannot tell if it’s my daughters strong personality, (her Motivation *Rom 12:6* is an Insight and she’s second highest in Teacher I believe), or the spirits still speaking through us. How can I tell the difference? And what is the point of deliverance if the spirits can still speak through us? Are there anymore reputable sites to have a look at or any good reading material to read? Thanks.
hi Tara
It sounds like whatever “deliverance” you went through did not work. If the behavior is still there, then you still have the problem.
It is important that you personally reject the spirits yourself.
Do not depend on others to do this.
If you are just passive, and expect others to do all the effort, then the deliverance will fail.
I know one person who was actually possessed, and delivered himself by rejecting the demon.
First, you have to accept salvation through Jesus, and reject all sin which caused the problem to begin with .
Then, you have to realize that no demon can stay with you, if you are covered by the blood of Jesus. And you just have to take authority over the demon and tell it to “go.”
As an adult, you can deliver yourself.
If your child has a Jezebel spirit, this requires discipline to correct her, because she is too young to understand what is wrong, and so her will has to be changed to choose positive behavior.
For her, reward good behavior, and punish bad behavior.