Healing the Male Charismatic Jezebel

 

This wound usually comes from a sexual contact at an early age, when the child is too immature and innocent to comprehend the nature of sex.

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Guilt is usually experienced, so the child keeps the wound a secret.

He then becomes obsessive about his “evil inclination,” and out of control with it.

He cannot handle the adult feelings because he is only a child.

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Sexual addictions are almost always connected to early childhood abuse.

They can occur later in life as well (needing a slightly different approach), but the grip on the soul is the greatest when it is done early on.

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The innocence of the child is replaced with the feeling on being in hell his whole life, and that there is something inherently wrong with him that can never be healed.

Feeling destroyed, he destroys others. Actually, it is hard for him to feel anything., which makes it easier for him to hurt others.

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This is what I would first tell the Male Charismatic Jezebel to do, to get started on the healing process.

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First of all, forgive yourself.

You were just a child.

Emotions were strong then, which is why the feelings “stuck.”

It was a good door, however, for a spirit of lust to invade you, which was intensified by the guilt you felt.

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1. so first, forgive yourself, and see yourself as a victim, not an evil person.  This lessens the demonic stronghold on you.

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2. you have to somehow heal the feminine relationships in your life.  You will not do this with women your age. 

You will replace the negative with the positive…….

You will do this with older women, preferably elderly, who need compassion.  Visit a nursing home. Find ways to volunteer, spend time showing kindness to older women. 

The contact you have with them will give you positive exposure to the feminine element to your life, and you will learn to appreciate women as people, instead of things.

Have nice conversations, learn from them, listen to their problems, help them walk or eat.  Hear about their past, the good and the bad memories.

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3. Go to library, and ask for books written by women who have been abused.  Read and  understand.

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4. Mother image – nonphysical relationship.

a. either spend time more with your own mother, learn from her, do things for her, appreciate her ….or….

b.  Find an older woman, with high morals, who can be a mother image for you…..spend time with her, do kind things for her…..learn from her.

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5. If possible, go back to the place where you were wounded. You will see it from a new perspective. See it as an adult now.

Spend time in reflection, and recall the event. You will see the experience in a new light….as an adult….it will help you release the guilt.

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6.   Read your bible like your life depends on it.  Learn what is in there.  That should consume you the rest of your life.

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7. Trust the Lord Jesus for deliverance. Give your heart to him and ask him to heal your heart. So you can actually feel love in your life.

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8.  Be patient with yourself.  It will take time.

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Real Love is a wonderful thing. It puts us in touch with our true divine nature that God breathed into us when he created us.

To know real love is to know God himself.

Know that you will be ok.

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Love heals.  Love yourself again.

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See also:

The Charismatic Male Jezebel – Conquest by Romance and Assimilation …..  Click here for more. 

Healing for Jezebel ….. Click here for more.