The Conflict Oriented Male Jezebel – Spirit of War
Here I assign 2 levels to this. Any truly wicked person starts out with less powerful beginnings. Unless he is checked, he will continue on to something worse. This spirit is destructive. and sadistic.
**** Note: When people think of witches/”jezebels” in the bible, they automatically think of women. While individual women are occasionally mentioned in scripture, most of the witches were men. Click here for more on male witches in scripture.
Level 1 - Low level conflict and deception (hoodlum-delinquent type-terrorist in the making):
Usually NOT religious. Atheistic views. Person could care less about God, and may mock God or others for faith oriented behavior.
May or may not be educated or successful, but is wise in a wicked way.
Internally feels out of control, so the response is to control the environment.
Does not trust others, so has accusatory nature
Likes to start fights
Can go from peaceful to violent in seconds.
Has anger issues and prejudices. Insults people.
Puts people against each other. Victims may be used as their proxy, interacting with others as they set victims up to take the fall while they enjoy watching the performance.
He keeps his allies and targets separate to avoid exposure, so they do not compare notes, and figure out it is him.
Twisting people’s words, to initiate a wrong view of a situation. Starts his own propaganda.
Applies ‘fear’ tactics, faking expertise
Scam artist – tries to convince others he is indispensable, the only expert that can handle the problem at hand.
Steals and cheats
They will agree to anything, then turn around and do the opposite. They will accuse you of breaking the contract.
Legal, custody agreements and normal social or personal protocol mean nothing to them.
They enjoy playing the role of the victim.
Does not like to be contradicted. Will attack you if you do. Will use abusive language and insults.
Retaliation.
Best response:
Expect them to disregard the agreement. Avoid involvement. Be self-sufficient. Avoid any “Trust-Me” lines.
Level 2 - Bully-terrorist-dictator :
Often successful and intelligent. He can craft complicated deceptions.
Controlling
Lies
May use constant repetition to persuade others. He just keeps telling the story until people start to believe him.
Religious temperaments:
a. By now, he is more mature, and has learned that religion is a useful tool to control others. He is not sincere, but puts on a show to win support.
b. or has adopted an extreme religious ideology that drives radical thinking and behavior
c. He is at war with God Himself.
Can have either open or secret agendas for power.
Recruits others through intentional lies and propaganda.
He can masterfully fake his abilities and credentials, if he does not have them. He is smart enough to be an imposter and get away with it. An example is a terrorist faking his ID to gain access to a country.
He exploits others, and must be in absolute control.
Intellectual. manipulative, and charismatic.
Backstabs his way to high positions.
He ruthlessly abuses his power. Will physically harm others.
Makes threats, and carries them out, with others he has recruited.
His wicked intent is to harm others he opposes, and establish a strong support base.
He places others in problem or failure situations. He can be in control and deny help, putting them in a dependency mode, where they will need him. Dictators do this. They impoverish the people, and then blame their enemies for this, and start a war.
The bully has no social conscience, and is often suspicious and paranoid.
Violent reaction to being contradicted. Reacts strongly to a sense of being exposed, or having control taken away from him. Becomes accusatory, and takes some sort of action against the contradiction – open conflict, or subtle undermining.
Claims victim hood to gain support.
Others may support him to further their own objective.
Can start open wars.
Retaliation.
Will break treaties or agreements. Only agrees to peace to buy time.
Will blame other side for a contrived reason, in order to reassign blame for the conflict.
Best response:
Prepare to get out of the way and put distance between you and them. Don’t get involved in anything illegal. Trying to stop them may backlash with a cascade of retaliation. Or, prepare to defend yourself, because they will try to hurt you.
Environmental development scenarios:
society – delinquent progresses to gangster, crime
family – rebellious child progresses to abusive adult, family problems
church – unsaved person progresses to fake saved status, and causes problems in church, rebellion and sometimes church splits.
workplace: misfit but borderline competent progresses to supervisory position by backstabbing
marriage – disagreeable, cheating spouse progresses to abusive spouse, divorce.
politics – malcontent progresses to terrorist, dictator
See also the Charismatic, Romantic Male Jezebel…
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The Conflict Oriented Male Jezebel « Heaven Awaits said this on April 1, 2008 at 12:48 pm |
I had a jaw dropping read of this article. I want to congratulate the person who researched this and put this on the web. I am and have been encountering the most hurrendous evil from my husband who I am now in the process of divorcing. He has every last one of the charactersitics of the “male jezebel”. He commited adultery with a relative and has attempeted to corrupt my children with what he is doing and has been relentless in his efforts to force his way of life on us. We want nothing to do with this. He tried to cut of sources of finance, made false accusations, threats to stop child mainitenance.
Creates situation where we have to depend on him for help etc
It has been a very good eye opening read. It teaches how to counteract this spirit of jezebel. They do not understand or respect boundaries. They dont take no for an answer, they are consitently rebelious and unconcerned with the pain they cause to to others. They are obsessed with controlling their victims. If they cannot, they step-up the attack. I feel sorry for any wife or husband who has encountered this kind of attack by thier spouse. I recommend also to steer clear of them until they repent. No re-concilation or agreemnet can exist in the stae they are in, neither do they mean anything they say. They are under strong delision, believing a lie, decieveing and being decieved. Its the spirit of the last days. They will agree to anything and oppose it, confusing the very people who trsut them
God bless and thanks once again, I now realise how very serious this spirit is and that I must sever contact with my husband and his partner from my children. They are the lords, and will always be. The spirit of jezebel is a prophet killer.
If you have a ministry, especially if it is prophetic, then an attack such as this is a smoke screen to destroy it.
Praise God for the spirit of discernment he is placing on his people
Dear coretta,
Thank you for your comment. I am so sorry to see the pain you have been in. It is best to get away, and let God deal with him.
About 95% of what I write comes from personal experience, and 5% from research. So, I really know what you are going through. That is why I can put the level of detail that I do. I want people to get the help they need, and the freedom knowing it is a demonic spirit, not just “them” as a guilty, or failing person.
God bless you
marianne
I’m personally a male Jezebel and i enjoy the power it gives me.
Sawyer,
Well, any temporary power is short lived, unless you give your heart to Jesus. This power I talk about is not good power, from from Satan. When you die, all of this will be over, and you will suffer in eternity. I hope you will think about this.
blessings
marianne
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I have run across 2 Jezebel spirits. One in a male and one in a female. The spirit is every bit as deceptive and wicked as its name sake and its goal is to destroy the leadership of the true grace taught church. Many run-of-the-mill churches have been infiltrated already with this spirit as well as other spirits like the spirit of offense which Christians carry about form one body to another. These spirits manifest themselves in those who come in the name of Christianity but walk not according to the Spirit of God. One thing I noticed about both people I know who embodied the Jezebel spirit is that the were/are sickly as well as seductive and divisive when confronted. We certainly cannot label anyone with some characteristics of this spirit as being possessed or influenced by it. However, to ignore the Jezebel influence and be critical of those who discern it is pure foolery. I thank you for your web site and the courage you exhibit to make known the attack of the enemy through this spirit. “For we walk in the flesh, but we do not war in the flesh …” Thanks be to Jesus the Christ who is victorious and we who are victorious with Him because of His faith within us, the gift He has given us exceeding abundantly.
Dear Sally,
Thank you for your experience, observations and encouraging comments. Much of what I say is also from experience.
It gladdens me that you have the wisdom to see spiritual things, so that you are prepared to handle such issues.
Stay strong in the Lord.
blessings
marianne
Thank you for this clear and accurate account.
Dear Helen
Thank you for your comment.
God bless you and protect you
marianne
Need scripture for the baking and better backing.
Hi Joshua,
Thank you for the suggestion. I will see if I can add scripture to put it in better context.
blessings
marianne
A very good expose! It’s one of ou8r functions as Christians to be the light in the dark world, and light illumines darkness and exposes whatever is trying to hide or operate in subterfuge via darkness. Keep up the good work.
Hi Paul,
Thank you for your kind words.
blessings
marianne
Just discovered this in research. Sally said something about a year ago about the people she had encoutered embracing the Jezebel spirit being sickly. Another spirit often acocmpanies Jezebel. That’s the python spirit, the spirit that sucks the life out of a person or a church or close knit community. Generally this is done with an unusual amount of unusual sicknesses across the board…say nearly everyone in the choir/praise team/prayer team has the big ticket sicknesses themselves or spouses or children. MS and an accident where a person becomes quadriplegic and a few crohn’s and a couple of non-smokers’ lung cancer, a son with autism, a few grandbabies with multiple physical issues, a man whose dad and two brother committed suicide over the years and whose third brother just attempted it, etc. These can be things that are difficult to diagnose or not responding to treatment. Essentially they suck out life…joy, hope. They take the focus off God.
cully
An interesting and good observation. The purpose of any demon is to steal, kill, and destroy.
Thank you for your article. I have also encountered the Jezebel spirit. I had just finished studying prophetic ministry, and I was well on my way to continue God’s plans for my life. As a single mother, I had chosen not to be in a relationship with a man, until I felt that God was ready for me to take that path. I, unfortunately, came across a very controlling male Jezebel spirit during my wait. I knew from the moment that I met him, that something very dark posessed his soul. (Although, outwardly he wore a mask to fool those in his path). I believe that he is completely posessed with this spirit, and I am unsure if he is aware of it or not. I let him into my life, wanting to help him, but I became a victim myself. The spirit destroyed my vision and has put God’s plans for me on hold for far too long. Jezebel attacks God’s prophets, and I do not believe for a second that it was just a “coincedence” that I met this man. It is so sad for all of those around him. Not only does he control the numerous women in his life, but he also destroys that of his mother, and his sister…they are also slaves to his work. This is one of the most powerful spirits that I have ever encountered. But, GOD is much more powerful! Praise God that he made our enemies a step stool under our feet!
I am curious if you ever received any deliverence healing? I am no longer in that relationship, but the Jezebel spirit still tries to control me, through this man. He will find excuses to contact me, and it is impossible to avoid him completely due to family and friendship ties of those who surrond us. I presume that you have the same problem, as your Jezebel spirit was your husband, and you have children together. Do you still feel weak when he is around? I still find myself being weakened by his presence, when I am forced to be in the same room with him, even though I despise the spirit that lives inside of him. I pray for his soul, and all those who become posessed by this spirit.
God bless you Marianne!
HI Stacy,
It is easy when they belong to a different circle of people and you can walk away. It is harder when they belong to family and they have an excuse to show up.
When my ex shows up, I leave. He is not allowed in my house, but can come in the yard, to interact as needed. I rarely speak to him on the phone, because he will try to con me into something. When he does show up, I keep tabs on what he does, since he might try to con someone else.
I do not think you are obligated to entertain this man. You obviously have no business with him, even if others do. Do not be in the same room with him. So, let it be known – to him and others – what you think of him, and why you are keeping your distance. If you explain long enough, and repeat yourself enough, maybe others will get the point, and not have him around either.
Take care of yourself, and pray that blind eyes be opened.
Hi Marianne,
Thanks for this eye-opener. I was married to a man with the jezebel spirit for 10 years although it wasn’t until 8 years into the marriage that I realized I was being emotionally controlled. By then his abuse had turned physical. We have one child together and he has made numerous attempts to poison her mind against me. She’s only 10 so we still have contact with other, which I try to keep to a minimum. He is controlling to the point that I get physically sick at the thought of having to see or deal with him. How do you deal with this type of person when you HAVE to have contact with them?
hi TJ
Well, in dealing with this type of guy, you need to forget courtesy and fairness. You have to stand up to him, and keep support people around, so he cannot get away with anything. Jezebels are bullies. You have to be tough with them. You also need to say NO to him a lot, and say “you want this, but I don’t, and I am not going to do that.” He cannot just have his own way all the time.
It would be good to educate your daughter, or she will end up with someone like him someday also. She will have to understand that “Daddy has behavior problems.” she is old enough. Give her a simple instruction, to protect her from her own father, and also from other men later.
I have recently been inroduced to information about the Jezebel Spirit. A friend of mine has encountered her spirit and through discussing similar marital problems, I have began my own research that has lead me to you. My husband, for the past 2.5 years, has become increasingly violent, nonrepentive, accusatory and abusive both verbally and physically. He lies about anything and everything and then denies it all when he is caught and confronted. He always plays the victim and although he can be overly sweet one minute, if denied what he is wanting (sexual advances, etc) he becomes immediately and intensely adgitated and abusive. I am still researching, but I may have very well found the root of what is going on in my home. I have a daughter from a previous marriage and a son with my husband as well. I have had concerns as to how this is affecting my children and will admit that I have not left due to fear (which is what this spirit apparently feeds off of) in leaving my son with him for visitations. My son is only 2 years old. Thank you for your information and sharing your experience and knowledge. I am definitely upping my spiritual armor for this battle!
hi BBB
You certainly describe a problem personality. You need back up there, people who can take your side in a disagreement, and that will understand the “victim” is pretending.
Sometimes it is necessary to leave an abusive relationship, so make sure you do have witnesses, because if this continues, he will falsely accuse you of things, to get out of his responsibilities. I had a friend who went through this. He falsely accused her of being an unfit mother, so he could take the kids, and avoid child support.
Unless he is willing to admit his problem, and get deliverance counseling, you are in for a rough ride.
He is already accusing me of everything under the sun. No surprise. He points the finger to everyone for things he is doing. I’m trying to build a support group now. I am finding that is the hardest part. Explaining to people and asking them to get somewhat involved. Thank you for your understanding and suggestions!
BBB
Include the kids as your support group, so they will not be tricked into turning against you. Explain to them that he has emotional problems, and to talk to you about anything he tells them about you.
Include the local police, since he could get worse, and hurt you, or the kids.
I have just run into two women who tried to befriend me on a forum. One contacted me then the other, and they turned out to be friends. Saying they didn’t realize each had contacted me separately. They both contacted me because I had posted an encounter I had with the Lord, I have walked in the prophetic gift. Both had complained to me extensively about illnesses I have never heard of. They were looking for deliverance and wanted to know more about me. I kindly showed each compassion, but kept pointing them to Jesus. One had admitted becoming suicidal many times. I mentioned to her that I had a pastors heart. She immediately emailed me back breaking the relationship saying, women couldn’t pastor. That she can no longer speak to me. Her friend then said that she still wanted to talk to me but that the friend that cut me off abruptly,said unless she trembles in the fear of the Lord when praying as she did, she was not walking the narrow path and would not see God. Without saying anything negative about her friend, I counseled her that this was not true. Then she emailed me saying she knew it was true, she didn’t feel well and she didn’t want to be decieved so she was seeking God and could not speak to me at this time.
I emailed her back warning her to be careful, and then as honestly and politely as possible told her I thought we should just seek the Lord, and give our communications a break.
She must have been offended, the next day she put up a post accusing me of having the spirit of Jezebel. It blew me away. I have prayed since and the Lord has shown me that these were unstable women. Do you think they themselves could have been operating in this spirit and because I saw it, they accused me of the very spirit influencing them?
hi Cheryl
I do not know anyone personally, so anything I say is not definite. But it just sounds like they are so fearful of making a mistake that they quickly suspect people that do not fit a certain pre-conceived pattern.
Both men and women are called to spread the gospel and shepherd new believers, to help them get started. The “male only” concept is not biblical. The male rule issue is for marriage, the husband is the head of the wife. This is for order in the home. But as witnesses, we are all equal.
If you want to post a defense, make it brief and polite. Express love and concern for all. Let it go at that.
also, do not confine yourself to one web site. You can be useful in many locations.
When I read this it described my father. For over thrity years he has been abusive towards my mother in every way; physical, verbal, and emotional. He has caused so much hurt and confusion within our family. He keeps our mother isolated from the rest of the family, manipulating her throughout the years and making her feel as if no one else in the family is concerned for her.
She has been severely depressed for many years now ( since I was a child), & on several medications because of it. He has never been arrested for any physical abuse that he’s done to her. There have been times when the police were called, they knew that a domestic incident took place and he would always con his way out of it. I grew up in a small town where everyone knew everyone and he managed to talk his way out of it many times. He worked in the prison system and would boast about the fact the he worked in the criminal justice field. He used this as a way to deflect any notion that he could do anything wrong. Any time law enforcement was around, even for simple reasons like car touble, he would immediately try to establish common ground with them; “one uniformed man to another” type of rapport. He is also an alchoholic and very controlling.
This is not even the begining, for years he has also put on a front as a preacher, using the title “Reverend Doctor and Prophet”. He has no license, is not ordained, & not associated with any chruch of any kind. He has even gone as far as doing radio programs, ” crusade meetings” in hotels, and having people come to their house (parents) for what he calls ” spiritual counseling”.
There were other things he did in this counseling; I’m not sure if it was just a front to get money from people or if he really practiced some type of witchcraft. He would take the numbers from certain scriptures out of the Bible and give them to people to play lottery or gamble with, he would give them little satchels that he made my mom make from dirt, unusual poweders, oils, and fabric; telling them to carry it with them or to sprinkle something around someone’s house. He has been know in this area and neighboring states as a root man or voodoo worker.
He can be very violent, paranoid, suspisious of everyone, and prideful; constantly exhibiting grandiose behavior. He hates to encounter someone who is doing better than him or has desire to accomplish and the ability to do sometheing better for their lives. My father, two of my half-sisters, and myself all at one time worked in the criminal justice field. One day, I was at work and was troubled by some issues that I had with my then husband (alchoholism). One of my sisters worked at the facility next door and she came over to console me and I told her that I was tired of dealing with his alcholism especially after dealing with it as a child with my dad.
My father heard that I was crying at work and thought that I was exposing him and telling everyone about him abusing my mom over the years (agency had a zero tolerance for domestic violence), he manipulated my sister into having me involuntarily committed. Thank God, I explained to the counselors what took place throughout the years, they of course found nothing wrong with me and let me go home. This just shows how vengful and deceitful this spirit can be. My sister has since apologized for having a part in that, when my parents started to harass her a couple of years ago. Remember when I told you that he did not like to see other people around him advance or seek goals. I mentioned that I wanted to get out of the criminal justice field and study to earn a degree, he became very angry and a few weeks later made a false report about me to children and family services regarding my son.
I read what was stated by Cully about the Jezebel spirit being sickly and I have also noticed this in him. For as long as I can remember, him and my mother have been plagued with one illness after another or several ailments at once. Him having diabeties, limbs amputated, heart trouble, emphysema, unusual infections; her having severe depression, high blood pressure, respiritory illnesses, cancer, and the list just goes on!
It also seems that within the last two years or so, our mom has started to take on some of his behaviors. My sisters and I thought that she was using this as a way to be safe around him and just agree with everything he says and does to keep herself from being hit or verbally abused. She is 73 and he is 67 this has gone on for over thirty years. I don’t have anyone in my family that I can talk to on a spriritual level, as far as I know, there is not anyone in my immediate or extended family that profess to be saved or even go to church.
hi Liz
Before we discuss your father any further, you mentioned limbs amputated. Which limbs, and how many?
Also, do your parents still live together?
I must say the Lord has led me to this website. I recently gave birth to a beautiful girl but her father clearly possesses the Jezebel spirit. A Word from God through a prophet mentioned a Jezebel spirit and in my research, especially from this site, pinpointed my ex; my daughter’s father. I still manage to have him around because I believed she needed a “father figure” in her life but I’m progressively understanding that he’s not the figure she needs in her life. The more in depth I read on this topic from this site, the more I realize what position my daughter and I are in. I have an overwhelming feeling the matter will result in a custody hearing and I would like to know any advice you could present regarding my situation. My daughter’s future is in my hands based on my decisions and I know and trust God is going to guide me further on his path. Thank you for your hard work to place such vital information for those like us who have to understand the Jezebel spirit.
Hi Asha
I would have to know more before I was of any help. But a Jezebel man will only bring emotional or physical harm.
If you are facing any sort of legal conflict, you must document everything. any abuse, any good care you give to show you are capable and competent, get witnesses to back you up, lots of proof how you are the better parent.
Level 1 describes my ex to a T. He could care less about God or spirituality. He didn’t finish high school but it is unbelievable how street-smart the guy is. He causes nothing but chaos everywhere he goes. His brother is a born-again christian and has tried to witness to him as have I, his last girl-friend, and his deeply religious grand-mother-all to no avail. He started out as slightly anti-social as a teenager but has progressed into something now that is unbelievably vile and dare I say evil. I still pray for him and hope that there is a part of him somewhere inside that maybe God can still reach. I tried to help him and just about destroyed myself in the process. He told me that it was a waste of time to try to help him because he chooses to be what he is and none of us are going to change him. I thought he was just self-destructive and ignorant about the direction he was going in but when he told me he chose that lifestyle, I knew that he knew what he was doing and that he had insight into the choices he was making and the consequences. So very sad. But hey, God gave us the gift of free will he’s not going to force us to choose.
I understand. I have a family member who is like your ex.
My heart breaks for all of the women here who I’ve read about their former spouses having a Jezebel spirit. I fall into that category also. I wish I knew BEFORE I married him that this could exist. I’ve learned so much since a very harrying divorce. Since we have 3 children I can’t break contact but wow. Both the romantic and warring Jezebel spirits fit him to a T. I’ve had to allow God to do some major healing in me because as we became one flesh, that one began to take hold of me and I was a mess after our divorce. I thank God for setting me free from all of it and His continued protection over me!!!
dear Rachael
I am glad to hear that you survived this. May God continue to keep you and protect you.
dear Rachael
I am glad to hear that you survived this. May God continue to keep you, and protect you.
Take a look at http://www.facebook.com/kevinmaxmusic. The reason is that Kevin was with the Christian music group DC Talk. If you look at his page and his interests you see a guy struggling with darkness but I don’t know if it is a jezebel characteristic but Kevin says he is a believer. By the way I did send him a friend request on facebook but it was denied. lol He made a movie called The Imposter.
hi Barry
I looked at Kevin’s website. Since I cannot tell someones’ salvation status by just appearance, i cannot say much.
But I do notice that all his photos are of him, not others dear to him, as would typify most sites.
I get the sense he is on the fence somewhere between 2 worlds.
Just pray for him, if he is someone that god has put on your heart.
hi helen, namusolee fred uganda/sudan .thanks to over come such mouster.GOD BLESS YOU.
Marianne,Please pray for me,I am a Spirit-filled Christian,(20+yrs.)widow,55yrs.old.,was married for 26yrs.very troubled marriage(physical,verbal and emotional abuse) please pray for my 4 grandchildren,place us on your prayer list please for continuous prayer as the Holy Spirit so leads you and other Spirit filled believers! I would appreciate your prayers,so desperately! I thank God for your website as I was seeking information concerning Binding the spirit of Witchcraft.I have reason to believe that my son and my daugther-in law both are operating in the Jezebel spirit/Ahab.I have lived closed to them or with them(not always by choice,but because of circumstances and needing help from family after my husband passed 8yrs.ago from cancer/and concern for my grandchildren,3,5,7,9 whom I have been around since their births)They are now living with me,but I have not had much “peace” since living here because it was so close to where they lived before moving in w/me needless to say,I have had to demand my “space” and my time alone,as they (son & wife)truly do not have respect for boundaries. I have allowed them full use of my home,yet I am in a constant tug of war to have my bedroom to myself in order to pray and study the Word,and I have constant interruption by my son and his wife more than the children.It is as if they refuse to allow me to be at peace and have times of quiet to study. I feel that I am being tormented even more,I have a hard time sleeping at night then there is constant confusion and chaos during the day,even though I try to have control of “my home,it is as if they are working against me w/each other and with my grand-children Sometimes I feel so “out-numbered” and bombarded.And they have only been living with me for TWO WEEKS!! I did not know what spirit I was up against until now.And I now realize what spirit was controlling my deceased husband,although he did accept salvation and deliverance 5yrs.before his passing and was a devout Christian from all appearances w/truly dramatic changes in his life. I ask for prayer,because I am now seeing all the signs of Jezebel listed here,in my oldest son and my daughter-in law.And I have found out recently from a reliable source that her mother practices witchcraft.They are in constant war with each other and have no problem turning on each other,upsetting everyone around,calling the police,only for someone else to end up going to jail,and then making up by having sex,all in one night!!! They have been evicted 3 times in 3yrs.And they are both very good at conning people,and using people for their own benefit. I have experienced this quite a few times from them both. I am very concerned for the safety of my grand-children
and I am asking the Lord to protect me,my grandchildren and my finances,so I will not lose my home, I have nowhere else to go.
,which neither of them show any concern for my grandchildren as long as I am around to take care of the children and teach them.I was planning to purchase my home,which is really crazy because I haven’t any money,and when I came to this area visiting my son/& family,I wasn’t even looking to rent a place in this area.My daughter-in law was showing me a mobile home for rent and the owner “just” offered out of the blue to rent me this one instead,and after I was moved into this home,he offered to sell it to me.Which I always felt was kind of odd,but chose to believe that the Lord would bless me with what I need to purchase my home which I have come to love so much.It is in the country (in Arkansas, which I have heard from many sources is full of Witchcraft Covens,one not far from me) I have always desired to live in the country and have a garden/small farm, but I never desired to live in AR.I abhorred the thought of ever visiting AR.and now I have been here for 1.5 yrs. and sometimes feel “stuck” w/out any transportation,except through my son & daughter-in law.
I am finding time to FAST,Pray God’s Word and Study God’s Word and I will continue to “Demand MY SPACE & Godly-CONTROL,& Spiritual Authority of my home,SATAN will not take control of my life,nor my home or the people in it! When they leave I have been praying through my home, and now I will also pray the Prayers I have found here!
I am so sorry for being so long winded,but I am very stressed,and very concerned.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!
Dear Gwen
6 people move in on you, and you feel stressed. I would also. 2 of my kids moved back with me, and I feel stressed, and neither brought kids with them. Prayer around here is hard also.
You will have to make some rules, and tell them to stick by them or leave. It sounds like they took over the house, and pushed you into the bedroom. It reminds me of a time when I had a house full of teenagers. I would lock the door also, and play worship music, so I could block them out.
I have put you on my prayer list. Do not give up. Lots of parents share your situation.
Hi Marianne,
This is hard for me to say, especially since I’m not certain about how to assess my situation. I THINK I might have the spirit of Jezebel tormenting me and it has been for a VERY long time now. I am so incredibly tired of fighting it but I honestly feel helpless. I cannot tell you how many times I have BEGGED God to help me/save me/free me. First let me give you a little background on myself. I grew up in a home where my parents claimed to be Christians but they were one way in public and in private, completely different. We rarely had visitors (a pretty reclusive and isolated family) but we were always the ever “polite” family around friends/church members/etc. We attended a Evangelical Baptist church since the time I was born but never developed any close relationships with others. I don’t think my parents either knew how to be close to others or they just didn’t want to be. It was all very superficial. Now, I won’t lie: I am in my early 30′s and I am STILL bitter about this because it’s had devasting affect on my life emotionally and spiritually speaking. My mother was a hard woman who I still see as never really caring about me and I never developed an intimate, trusting, loving relationship with her. My father, however, adored me and took me under his wing (but not in a healthy way). He was lonely because my parent’s had a rocky relationship, so I became the sort of “replacement” wife for him. He never bothered to help me develop into a woman with healthy boundaries, instead he violated those boundaries by choosing instead to dump all his complaints about my mother onto me and treating me almost like his own personal therapist. He would buy me things but they were almost always what he liked (HIS hobbies imposed on me). I felt invisible and used. I won’t lie and say I’m over it because I’m not and I’m having a very hard time forgiving them, forgetting my past and moving forward. Now, I have a hard time seeing myself accurately because I know I deflect observations from others about my character since I don’t want to face it. But Marianne, I am seriously ready to face it. I just need a person I can trust to help me. I have serious trust issues—I am highly suspicious of others and their intentions. I often think the people around me are evil and want to use/abuse me. I am currently in a relationship with a man and I try to cover up my issues as much as possible but they come out—they are always there and I’m afraid he does not know how to deal with it. He somewhat fits the description of an Ahab (but with more potential, I believe). I met him after I moved from my former life to where I am now because I lost my job, my car and my apartment over a year and a half ago. I clearly and distinctly heard the call of God to “Come out from among them and be ye separate”. He closed all the doors to my old life and took me out of the world. I have cut off communication with almost everyone in my past and it scares me but I KNOW I need to do it. I want freedom from this spirit NOW. I have OFTEN prayed that God would take my life because I am tormented mentally and spiritually day and night and have only certain periods of a day when I get relief. Nothing seems to help. I pray but I’m not sure what else I need to do. I’ve told God that I repent of my former ways, I will not return to that life and to cleanse me of all my impurities but I am still stressed, tense, irritable, aggressive often, tempermental, defensive, angry, confused in my thinking, overwhelming feelings of emptiness, not able to retain information and fall prey to destructive behavioral patterns that I seem to get “stuck” in. I recognize that I want my own way and can be completely inflexible. I writhe in agony when I am critisized and just get angry instead of using to it change and I feel completely helpless. I have assumed the victim role much of my life and I tell you I have been miserable for as long as I can remember. I go through serious bouts of depression at times when I have failed in life and it gets harder as I get older. I OFTEN say, “I don’t know why I do the things I do” and that I feel helpless to stop it. It may sound like an excuse but it’s been like this in my life so long, I have almost given up on ever being free to live for God the way I know I should. I’m tired now and can’t write anymore but if you have any suggestions, I would appreciate it. I need help and I need it soon because I am so tired of fighting. I can’t live like this. I NEED to be free or else this will take my life.
hi Deborah
I am not clear. Are you saying that Jezebels are bothering you, or that you have the Jezebel spirit yourself, and need deliverance?
But it sounds like you have been oppressed by the spirit of jezebel, and have been acting like one.
This is due to emotional injury as you grew up. This left you vulnerable, and feeling like you had to protect yourself from your environment. And the best way would be to control the environment, thus controlling what people could further do to you.
Here is more information about different types of Jezebel:
http://heavenawaits.wordpress.com/category/jezebel/
Good news is that you can get better, You can email me back (hit the reply button) when you get this website response, and you will get my private email.
Pray for me also Marianne. I feel I have some characteristics of the jezebel but don’t know why. I used to and kind of do have a problem with lying and maybe this is because im so used to puttin up shields and being scared to being torn down and shouted at by people. I don’t know why i feel this way its ike maybe i caught the jezebel fruit off some people I have met and mixed with. I feel like im deceptive and that im attacked with bad thoughts and like my heart keeps racing and i keep thnking “satan, satan” everytime and I try to say Jesus!
hi Lee
I put you on my prayer list. It sounds like you need to get away from people for awhile, and spend time alone with God. You need to replace the negative influences with Someone positive. God is a healer.
definetely! But my lifestyle always means I can never be away from family. I always scared to think im a curse or a burden to my family espcially my mother. I feel I need to go some place and sequester myself and build myself back up. I feel like I have an anti-christ spirit and everytime I try to break free, it feels like the spirit gets rageful and angry at me and i perceive the world and my flesh telling me I can never be free! and I get threats in my spirit that I will be killed if I break free! i know its a bluff!
Lee
You have a mom that loves you. Talk to her. Ask her to pray with you.
You can go to your room to be alone.
i know its just i have gone through alot over the past three years some of it is my fault. one time i tried to tell her everything but didn’t quite. its like when i try be myself and tell the truth, my heart starts to race and i get nervous like the devil is mad at me!
Marianne, i must thank you! I realise i can be annoying sometimes and talk too much and im sorry if i have frustrated you. i just feel like i need to talk to people like you who are spiritually like-minded.
Lee
Everything is fine with me. That is why I am here.
You will just have to trust your mom.
Do not worry about making the devil mad. In fact, that would be an accomplishment. He cannot do anything to you if you cover yourself with the blood of Jesus.
I am just telling you, that if you were my son, I would want to know what is bothering you, so I could comfort you and help you.
I would expect your mom to feel the same way.
I know deep down that your right…i just want to be truthful and “see-through” before its too late… btw, do you have any sons or daughters marianne? have you dealt with something similar?
Lee
I have a son and a daughter. I wish that BOTH of them would talk to me more about their spiritual lives. But, I cannot force them. I just have to love them, and then sit and wait.
Marianne, hmmm I see what you mean. I’m an only child so im scared ill be snatched away because of the spiritual attacks but I have spoken to mymum in part about some things…i ahven’t told her about my sins and mistakes…I told her some things but she said they weren’t true and that the devil is attacking me…like when i told her that once i had an impression that im the anti-christ and that im satan’s son and that i was a curse. She told me thats the devil talking and said he’s trying to quench my productivity for God. she then gave me a scripture about how Jesus gave the parable of the talents and that if i forfeit mines God will be angry because of my excuses. what do you think?
Lee
Just listen to her.. She is trying to help you. What you need most is prayer and a big hug. Ask for lots of hugs and prayers – every day!
ok. thanks very much marianne. nite nite. and God bless
I am so glad for this website. I been a single mom for 8 years and in 2006 i met this man. My mom just pased 2 months after i met him. I was no going to church at the time. I had been separtated for 8 years after my husband had affair with my best friend i took him back and he did it again. i have never felt so distant from God. I stopped going to church. I was becoming a workalcoholic. i made a pledge to stay out of relationship and went into work. back to the man of 2006 we dated for 2years and than i met his mom. all he sudden in 2008 he calls me for a bible. well of course i have a bible. he said he need one right away so i went to give it to him….when i got there is was a mess i never saw this side of him. i started to feel sorry and in need to help….i been helping every since then in a bad way.
i allowed him to cross my boundries i was lonly and now we are living together i am engage but i has take all the mention things that you say above my relationship with my children i am only need in a mothering way. i see that there is not emotional attachement. i am more lonely than ever. i am not consist in my own boundies anymore and my emotion and finice are a mess so i feel very stuck. the manlipulation on both parts. he does not hold up to his words. how can i marry him. the guilt and remorse i feel for allowing this to happen. I am gratful about one thing i am getting in touch with my own issues. i feel unloved and unwanted. i was in and out of foster care and was suppose to be protected and i was molested by my foster parents.
i don’t remember all the detail it very dark in there. i start with all the protecting myself and my heart. please pray for me and my son. they get along great and i have fears around that and i know nothing is going on but, this is how satan or the jezebel spirit is tormenting me. this as been very healing and very painful at the same time. a lot of relvation has been revealed. i am working on holding my part in my behavior. this is where i am unaccepted by him and my son. i feel like i am being gang up on. i need prayer. he even ask the pastor if he could marry last year. it is me i guess that is having doubts.
i want to do what is right and i love the lord we both where bapatized in the church 2009 and recommited. he is the passive kind watches tv sports all the time. please pray for me i feel it is all my fault and take on to much responiblity. i am willing to change and do what i can with what God gave me. Lovin Jesus tc
Dear Tammy,
I would not look back to the past, except to get healing for it.
Make an appointment with a pastor and ask for counseling. Include your boyfriend.
Learn to love yourself.
You are a beautiful, sensitive person, and you deserve all the love in the world.
You need to make some decisions about what is right for you and your son.
You can do this. You just need confidence in yourself.
I will put you on my prayer list, for your happiness and financial security.
This past week this evil man has been coming to our church, He verbally abused the woman with emphasis towards myself. He rebuked openly the jezebel spirit, cursed the rebellion and control. Note this is a man who is not a leader. Who gives him that authority? He was violent too it was so ugly.
rw
Talk to the pastor and others about telling him to leave, and not come back. You do not need evil people coming there and causing trouble.
Hi Marianne,
I have to tell you, I’m actually excited about this study! 15 years ago I was experiencing a violent marriage. I would take my dog with me out into the far pastures to get away, and cry out to God for help and hollar out “Why is this happening to me?” A few years later God removed the veil, and I became “born again”. At this time I was already involved in another relationship, with a man that in the beginning was my protecter from my ex-husband. Then he turned on me, violently. I couldn’t believe it was happening again. He seemed freaked out too! All around the same time I was called to the shelter of the Most High! I was living with this man, started going to Church, my Dad gave me a NLT Bible. Where we lived we could not get TV reception, we had a TV and VCR and would watch movies, but did not have the extra money to have cable or satelite. I was dusting one morning in the living room and I was doing the TV, as I wiped across the buttons all of a sudden the TV came on, there was a pretty little blonde lady behind a pulpit preaching, so I turned it up and sat down and listened to her. She was teaching on Psalm 91, and described a couple of examples to “claim it for yourself” when you are affraid, whether by fear of a burglar or a sickness. She began with the first verse, and very clearly went through Psalm 91. Well that evening, I had a Christian music cassette playing on the stereo in the house, and the man was living (in sin with) was out working in the garage fixing 4wheeler or something, and he all of sudden came STORMING IN HOLLARING WITH TEETH FLASHING, RED FACED, FISTS COCKED ON THE RUN TOWARD ME FROM THE DOOR AT THE BACK PORCH , CROSS THE KITCHEN TOWARD ME IN THE LIVING ROOM. WHEN HE WAS IN THE KITCHEN ON THE MOVE TOWARD ME, ALL IN A MATTER OF FRACTIONS OF SECONDS, THE HOLY SPIRIT REMINDED ME OF THE BLONDE LADY ON TV AND PSALM 91, I URGENTLY WHISPERED “GOD IF THAT PSALM 91 IS FOR REAL I NEED THAT RIGHT NOW”!! BASICALLY IS WHAT I WHISPERED AS HE WAS CHARGING ME, WELL SIR ALL OF A SUDDEN HE WAS LIKE PROBABLY 10 FEET FROM ME ON A RUN AND HE WAS “JERKED TO A COMPLETE STOP” ON BOTH SIDES HE WAS STUGGLING TO GET AWAY TO GET AT ME BUT COULDN’T MOVE! I COULDN’T SEE ANYONE BUT HIM, BUT IT LOOKED LIKE THERE WAS SOMEBODY ON BOTH SIDES HOLDING BACK FROM ME! WELL didn’t I take to laughing , as I just KNEW IT WAS GOD AND THAT PSALM 91! HE HOLLARED AT ME TO STOP LAUGHING REALLY MAD!! I TRIED TO STOP , EVENTUALLY BIT MY LIP TO STOP, I WAS JUST SO SURPRISED AND THOUGHT IT WAS MIND BLOWING!!! I STEPPED OVER TO THE TV, AND TRIED TO SEE IF IT WORKED AGAIN, THE WALTONS were on, his body completely “deflated” and he sat on the couch, watching the Waltons and looked completly “FREAKED OUT”, and remained silent and calm, and exhausted looking! From that moment I knew it was something evil. Which I didn’t really think existed other than in scarry movies. I knew then God was real, I went back to the Psalm 91 to read it again, and noticed the reference to “angels”, the Holy Spirit was trying to tell me they were with me that night. Ever since I refer to standing on Psalm 91 as my 911 Prayer!!! And the pretty little blonde lady I discovered like 5 years later that she was Gloria Copeland! I moved home to my elderly parents home where we grew up, and there was never any nasty behaviour in our home growing up, other than my sister and I fighting like sisters do. Again my family were like my heroes and a safe place to rest and heal. Then my brother who was one of the best closest relationships in my life , began behaving the same way!!! I knew by this time the enemy was attacking my family!!! He was using every man in my life as a vessel in this manner!! I’d cry out to God to stop the enemy and protect my family! In the last 2 yrs it has settled down, I’m waiting for the healing of my brother, for reconciliation. I plead the blood over my family, Satan can not have him, Isaiah 54:17 No weapons formed against me shall prosper! Zechariah 2:5 Lord be a wall of fire round and about me and all of my family, Your GLORY in our midst! and of course ALL OF PSALM 91 and I put the Lord’s suit of armour on every morning, his garment of praise, try to live and walk in forgiveness and love and just keep on seeking Our Loving Saviour for “how do I handle this Lord”? Love you Marrianne for sharing the knowledge God has taught you! Life has been my classroom for the Lord to teach me, it’s been a wild ride, but it’s looking pretty Glorious and Victory is so close I can taste it! My sister is now rising up a little it seems, so I’m on the watch here for my entire family, Psalm 91 protection for every member and each and everyone receive the free gift of the Lord’s Salvation! In Jesus Name I pray Amen! My sister is a mocker, please help me prayer her into the Kingdom Of God! Peace on earth as it is in heaven! The Lord has and will provide all my needs ! Hallelujah! Love ya Sister In Christ, Wendy
hi Wendy
I am so happy to hear your testimony, and that you were given that prayer psalm for victory when you needed it.
The devil is out there to kill, steal, and destroy, but God’s angels are on duty 24/7 also.
They respond to the Word, so if we speak it, they will come!
I was wondering what would be the result of having 2 people with a Jezebel Spirit in a relationship a (as in business, marriage or other relationship?)
hi Loretta
If both were Jezebels, there could be either competition for power, or an alliance to meet common goals.
If one was an Ahab and one was a Jezebel, this would form a destructive partnership that would harm others.
Help, I believe i am dealing with a male jezebel he is my husband. I always sinced he was hiding something just didnt know what. now that we are married oh my is all i can say and i know that Jesus is truly my savior and has kept me this far. even before marriage i had demons threatening me. but i thought that it was because the devil didnt want us together being saved. now thanks to this i know diffrently. Please help me what do i do.
dear orrinda
If he is really a male jezebel, it is unlikely he will repent.
The bible says we are not to be unequally yoked to an unbeliever ( even if he claims to be one)
The choice is yours.
You can choose to either stay with him, and pray for him.
Or you can choose to leave him, and God will not hold you guilty for that.
you are not required to stay in a dangerous or unhealthy marriage to a jezebel.
If you choose to stay, you will need to have as support system of friends and family around you for safety and to defend you in arguments and fights.
Thank you so much for your website. Sometimes while experiencing spiritual warfare, it seems as if I’m alone in my struggle. I have experience firsthand the spirit of Jezebel operating in a former pastor. We are always hearing about the “she” form of Jezebel. However, rarely do I hear of any one speaking about Jezebel in male form. I guess this is because this spirit was first manifested in the female gender in the biblical text. Well, I know firsthand that this is a seducing manipulative spirit that hates order and loves chaos. This was my former pastor. From the moment I walked into that cult of a place, I knew something was very wrong. The women were so oppressed! The men (many of them) were in homosexual relationships with one another. I never wanted to be there but I was sent there and I do mean sent. It was a battle from the very start. This was a rural area where witchcraft ruled many of the churches. My family moved to the area shortly after the Holy Spirit told me that we would be moving to another place to dwell. The place was hell here on earth. Everything was fine until this pastor became aware of my gifts. In addition to this, I had walked in on him and one of his so called armor bearers in the pulpit (clothes on) rubbing their bodies against one another. To add insult to injury, a young boy, age 16 informed me that he had been molested by the pastors armor bearer and that the relationship continued. I became privy to too much of the sin that was occurring in that place. Therefore, this man began telling me all kinds of lies about what people were saying about me. He called my cell morning, noon, and night, filling my ears with garbage about what people were saying. He became very seductive and when I pointed this out to him, he only would laugh. I read him very well and he knew it. He began sending messages through other people to me saying things to cause me to be fearful. Sometimes it worked. Yes scare tactics is another one of Jezebels methods to destroys God’s anointed! There were times when I became so paranoid that I could not tell my left from my right. I literally thought that I would loose my mind.
He was such a smooth operator and the congregation was oblivious to him tactics. Eyes, but they could not see. In 30 years this man had NEVER ordained anyone! He was a one man show. And guess what? Although he was married, he HATED women but he made the women in the church all think that they were so very special with his smooth seducing speech. He sowed discord in the church causing so many argument among the believers. No one knew that he was behind most of the the discord that was going on. He was called by man and he absolutely abhorred anyone whom he believed was the anointed of God. He hated any evidence of an authentic move of the Spirit. His tears were not real but people would fall for each time. This man was not interested in God nor was he interested in pointing anyone to God. No! The people worshiped him. He began isolating me by starting all sorts of lies about me in the ministry. And get this, when I called him on what I knew, he began telling the church that I was JEZEBEL! The people loved me and he hated it so he set out to destroy my character. He knew he couldn’t touch my gifts because they from from God, but he could kill my character because in this way who would want to hear let alone believe what I said. The straw that broke the camel’s back, if you will, was the time when he circulated a letter through the church about an affair that he was having with me and made it appear to the people that the letter was sent to him by my spouse who is a well respected figure in our community. It was horrible. This man was the DEVIL!!! He is cunning and he is a master manipulator!!! His cult is full of babies that cannot discern anything and that’s exactly how he wants it! He wants them to remain ignorant so that he is able to maintain his POWER!. This is what he is really after. POWER!. His self esteem is very low, he has only an undergraduate degree and so he hates the educated as well. My God help those people who are still there. To make a very long story short, I prayed and prayed and prayed until one night the Lord told me to “depart from that place or risk a spiritual death.” I left never to return. That experience to seminary. Six years later, I am an ordained clergy member with my own ministry focus on hope, healing, and Love. To God be the Glory.
May I also add, that through your website, I now know that I am not alone! Let us pray one for the other for our sisters who remain bound by this evil manipulating and seducing spirit from hell!
LET THE JEHU GENERATION COME FORTH AND TAKE . THEIR POSITIONS TO DESTROY THIS WICKED AND EVIL spirit! IN JESUS NAME!. AMEN.
Dear Servant
Yes, the Jezebel male is worse than the female. The male has both more natural and spiritual authority than the female, and so even a female jezebel will bow to the male jezebel. The antichrist will be a male jezebel.
I can feel for you about the church hell you went through. I went through a similar experience and I only had female jezebels to contend with. However, there was a group of them under an ahab pastor.
Your story sounds like one I heard on the news lately.
I would always be aware of any man or woman that needs “armour bearers” to function. They are exalting themselves. And the people are mindless, wanting someone powerful to idolize.
I wish you well on your ministry.
please help i posted on the other bit about jezebel.but alot of these things seem like my husband we are seperated .but he said its me an my family that have got it and its in my dads church .i realy dont think it is ,its him..the way he manipulates the anger.its like a pattern for a few months he will b ok then he will play the blamr game and project everything on me..he says if i dont cut ties with my dads church etc then he will divorce me,he says hes studied the jezebel etc.but when i read this its all what he is like ,even when we were friends before he used to church hop alot ,he always moans about every church hes been to .i have had a feeling and thoughts that he may b a sociapath or jezebel ,no remorse no true reptance the list goes on.he says he doesnt have to tell me anything ,even when i try and tell him hes out of order for letting me down ,ie,if i was gona go see him and he decides to play up and not contact me.he cant do things like that ,one minute decide to jog his wife on kinda thing.im so scared i dont wana loose him ,ive tryed to in a calm way tell him he needs to look at himself.an he twists it all the time..im pleading with god to set him free,god dont want him to b like this,and god dont want us apart!..when will god set him free when will he realise its him.?.i get all thses horrid gut like feelings all the time ,sometimes a day or to before he starts.is it fear i have ,/.i just cant belive the way he talks to me no honour ,tells me to shut up.
hi sarah
it sounds like he does not know what he wants in life, and he is very unsure about any committment. He is insecure. he has internal frustrations, which come out because deep inside, he does not feel like he has been successful enough as a person, and in the world. so he compensates by blaming others.
he has a fragile ego, and cannot take criticism. he seems to feel threatened by your dad’s church as you connect better there than with him.
i do not think either of you are jezebels, even though he seems controlling at times. a real male jezebel is very strong and forceful and this is constant behavior…not on and off. Also, he would take control of any church he came to, and not leave.
he is just angry and frustrated.
try asking him if there is anything you can do for him….do not insinuate there is anything wrong with him….if he starts feeling supported, he may jsut calm down
thanks so much for getting back so quik..im so confused,its only coz i started investigate about jezebel ,it sounds like him.the control,manipulating ,mentaly bulling ,the arrogance.coz it was saying that jezebel can be descreat,so thats why i thought ,thats why for a month or 2 he will pretend things are ok and then crush me down again.its like a game and a pettern with him.he has alot of knowlegde of the bible and if anyone tries to challenge him he gets all arrogant and thinks hes on a pedistool..i did everything he asked me to do.i told my dad that he was out of order (not that he was) its only coz i called cops on him and he went to court.so i did all that,coz he thinks we tryed to destroy him.rubbish hes done alot of damage really hurt us,but you can never tell him coz he twists it,he still goes on about the past..an he still said last night he should of divorced me ages ago,,last week he said he knows the devil wants us to row and not contact eachother.and he wont let that happen an now this week hes decided to go back on his word.the pain is unbearible.i cannot beleive he can go around thinking hes the victim,after all what hes done hes got the cheek to go on about court..im pleading with god to set him free..sorry it was so long.
also he is using the jezebel thing as an excuse to divorce .coz i read one of the above posts and thats what he said to me.that he cant b part of jezebel..please lord im not jezebel you dont want divorce ,please help john please !!!.and if there is anything i need to get dealt with then i will to save our marrige ,father god please !!!,help us ,i dont know why i get these gut feelings lord is it fear like john says or were you warning me when he plays up,lord we need you!!.
hi sarah
For now, for your own safety and peace of mind, keep your distance.
He has to come to the end of himself…..or another way of saying it….he has to get so mad at life and everyone that he gets burned out on his own anger and self imposed victim hood.
When he is by himself, he will eventually need to face himself.
He will not believe you, but he will hear it again from the judge, that he is out of control with all his anger and personal issues.
Sometimes, all we can do is our best, and then we have to turn it over to God to deal with the person.
Gather support around you and keep it there. Ask your family and friends to pray with you.
I feel for you. There are 2 people in my family who act like that.
I added you to my prayer list.
Things may get worse before they get better. You will have to be patient through all this.
thanks ill pray for u too..i have asked god to bring him to his knees..i have been struggling with myself and i feel like im not genuine for god,i feel im only doing it for my marrige to work ,which it will ,but i need to feel love for god i need to feel genuine i tell god this all the time ,he played up last christmas and i thought it was bad then ,he didnt contact me for a few months and i was beleiving god for a miricale ,then he wrote to me.an now hes at it again,going on about i shouldnt of called cops ,an anger management,but a few weeks ago he said it was a chance for him to help the lost??.hoping to win a boy over to christ..he is used to being on his own thats the thing.he hasnt got any friends only a couple of ministers and our minister like bloke who we go to for minisrty when i go up to see him.i wrote to brian and told him what was going on,but ye i was thinking the same maybe it has to get worse etc..actually the last few months ive been asking god to convict john about all the pain hes caused and the things he hasnt put right,coz i think hes forgot or isnt remorsefull..i dont know but mayb thats made him kick up a fuss..anyway sorry to go on .thanks again
hi sarah
You also need someone to stick up for you and tell john that he is an idiot, and needs to shape up, and act like a man.
Your minister needs to develop some male hormones, and have a strong talk with john.
I have been dating a person for about 7 months and i believe He has a Jezebel spirit. He is not as extreme as described in this blog but he has effiminate characteristics, but he sexually interested in only me. I have not had sex with him and he respects that as believers in being holly. i really believed God told me this man was to be my husband and I had several dreams that he was. I wasn’t even looking for a mate. So my question is what do I do. i care a great deal about him. It so happens that our church is studying and coming against the jezebel spirit. My pastor knows that we are dating and gave his approval seven monthgs ago. Several prophets confirmed our relationship. Do i confront him or do I let the pastor and church deal with it. i am praying for him and want to see him delivered. Could it be possible that God allowed me into his life to challenge him in this area? I don’t know what to do.
dear Diva
What you have is an Ahab spirit in him, which is similar to a Jezebel, except he empowers the jezebel.
I think your pastor and “prophets” are full of baloney…….they appear to have no spiritual discernment when an ahab spirit is in front of them and so they approve of him.
I would not trust what they say.
I am going to tell you what will happen. He will find himself a female jezebel and will drop you for her.
I suggest you pray for him but do not get involved with him UNTIL he gets deliverance, which will NOT happen in THAT church.
they are not qualified to do any deliverance if they cannot recognize the spirit to begin with.
FYI – it may be that he will never get delivered. So keep that in mind.
Starting a men’s bible study next Sat and we begin with the Ahab / Jezebel spirits. The objective of the study is for men to understand the spiritual warfare: recognize the enemy, understand our authority and claim it to defeat the spiritual enemy that is attacking home, church and workplace. Seems to be active within this church. Please provide links, articles, books that can help us. My mission is to have 5 to 10 men within our small church well equipped to be informed Prayer Warriors. One resource will be giving to supplement the study “Secrets of a
Prayer Warrior” by Derek Prince. Any suggestions?
hi DJ
Here are some posts from my site: there are 22
http://heavenawaits.wordpress.com/?s=jezebel
http://heavenawaits.wordpress.com/category/jezebel/
anything written in gold font is the introductory page, use the Click Here to get to the main page. Main pages are listed in white font.
print out the pages and use them.
also, I have had people read the book Jezebel Spirit by Francis Frangipane….and said it was a helpful book.
John Paul Jackon also wrote a book, but I have heard bad results from husbands, where women actually got infected with the spirit reading it.
Good luck with the group. It is encouraging to see men do this study. Jezebels only take over when men fail. When a man is in righteous authority, a jezebel cannot take over. She will even submit to him.
My ex husband fits this to a T.
He now has custody of my 3 kids and I pray daily and wake up in middle of the night to pray again. False accusations are huge. He remarried, had a baby on the way and works at a local church in town(part time but one of the biggest in the city), and has so many allies that are afraid to confront him.
I pray for my oldest the most because he has been manipulated to testify and side with my ex, and he had a team of lawyers, counselor(who i thought was the kid’s side…) a parenting coordinator, and Dr.
His boss, whom he got allhis brilliant evil ideas from, helped him out with the A lawyer….etc.
My last attorney said, IF HE FILES criminal charges, be prepared for a Criminal lawyer! So God help me if that happens.
He had his wife file an attempted entry/Burglary police report, each time i came on a day he agreed to, yet was not listed on our ORDER of the court.
Please pray for the situation. The kids are afraid of how he’ll reduce my time, if anything goes wrong at all, we live in fear of his next idea to maintain fear and control over all of us.
Marianne,
This information is amazing to me. This IS my estranged husband! We have been married almost 15 years and have been separated for just over 5 years. We have four children together.
I filed for divorce a few years ago and shortly after, he called Child Protective Services on me. They found no fault in me and dismissed the charges. He has moved around so I cannot serve the divorce papers to him. I’m stuck in limbo with little hope of moving forward.
This man has a control over me at times and others I am able to stand up to him. He is now telling me that I am in rebellion to him and God. He says that two of my children broke bones recently because I am out of God’s Chain of Command. Please pray and help in any way possible.
I just don’t know what to do anymore and feel so tired of fighting. More info later,
FedUp
dear Fed UP
It is good you see what you are dealing with. The jezebel always accuses.
You can move forward anyhow.
You do not need a piece of paper to do it.
If he contacts you for any reason, tell him to buzz off, then serve the papers on him.
Or, you can check with an attorney, and see if sending the papers to the last known address will be good enough, since the post office can theoretically forward his mail to his new address.