The Conflict Oriented Male Jezebel – Spirit of War
Here I assign 2 levels to this. Any truly wicked person starts out with less powerful beginnings. Unless he is checked, he will continue on to something worse. This spirit is destructive. and sadistic.
**** Note: When people think of witches/”jezebels” in the bible, they automatically think of women. While individual women are occasionally mentioned in scripture, most of the witches were men. Click here for more on male witches in scripture.
Level 1 - Low level conflict and deception (hoodlum-delinquent type-terrorist in the making):
Usually NOT religious. Atheistic views. Person could care less about God, and may mock God or others for faith oriented behavior.
May or may not be educated or successful, but is wise in a wicked way.
Internally feels out of control, so the response is to control the environment.
Does not trust others, so has accusatory nature
Likes to start fights
Can go from peaceful to violent in seconds.
Has anger issues and prejudices. Insults people.
Puts people against each other. Victims may be used as their proxy, interacting with others as they set victims up to take the fall while they enjoy watching the performance.
He keeps his allies and targets separate to avoid exposure, so they do not compare notes, and figure out it is him.
Twisting people’s words, to initiate a wrong view of a situation. Starts his own propaganda.
Applies ‘fear’ tactics, faking expertise
Scam artist – tries to convince others he is indispensable, the only expert that can handle the problem at hand.
Steals and cheats
They will agree to anything, then turn around and do the opposite. They will accuse you of breaking the contract.
Legal, custody agreements and normal social or personal protocol mean nothing to them.
They enjoy playing the role of the victim.
Does not like to be contradicted. Will attack you if you do. Will use abusive language and insults.
Retaliation.
Best response:
Expect them to disregard the agreement. Avoid involvement. Be self-sufficient. Avoid any “Trust-Me” lines.
Level 2 - Bully-terrorist-dictator :
Often successful and intelligent. He can craft complicated deceptions.
Controlling
Lies
May use constant repetition to persuade others. He just keeps telling the story until people start to believe him.
Religious temperaments:
a. By now, he is more mature, and has learned that religion is a useful tool to control others. He is not sincere, but puts on a show to win support.
b. or has adopted an extreme religious ideology that drives radical thinking and behavior
c. He is at war with God Himself.
Can have either open or secret agendas for power.
Recruits others through intentional lies and propaganda.
He can masterfully fake his abilities and credentials, if he does not have them. He is smart enough to be an imposter and get away with it. An example is a terrorist faking his ID to gain access to a country.
He exploits others, and must be in absolute control.
Intellectual. manipulative, and charismatic.
Backstabs his way to high positions.
He ruthlessly abuses his power. Will physically harm others.
Makes threats, and carries them out, with others he has recruited.
His wicked intent is to harm others he opposes, and establish a strong support base.
He places others in problem or failure situations. He can be in control and deny help, putting them in a dependency mode, where they will need him. Dictators do this. They impoverish the people, and then blame their enemies for this, and start a war.
The bully has no social conscience, and is often suspicious and paranoid.
Violent reaction to being contradicted. Reacts strongly to a sense of being exposed, or having control taken away from him. Becomes accusatory, and takes some sort of action against the contradiction – open conflict, or subtle undermining.
Claims victim hood to gain support.
Others may support him to further their own objective.
Can start open wars.
Retaliation.
Will break treaties or agreements. Only agrees to peace to buy time.
Will blame other side for a contrived reason, in order to reassign blame for the conflict.
Best response:
Prepare to get out of the way and put distance between you and them. Don’t get involved in anything illegal. Trying to stop them may backlash with a cascade of retaliation. Or, prepare to defend yourself, because they will try to hurt you.
Environmental development scenarios:
society – delinquent progresses to gangster, crime
family – rebellious child progresses to abusive adult, family problems
church – unsaved person progresses to fake saved status, and causes problems in church, rebellion and sometimes church splits.
workplace: misfit but borderline competent progresses to supervisory position by backstabbing
marriage – disagreeable, cheating spouse progresses to abusive spouse, divorce.
politics – malcontent progresses to terrorist, dictator
See also the Charismatic, Romantic Male Jezebel…
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For the Jezebel Pastor / Minister …….Click here for more
See also the rest of the Jezebel Series, including the Female Jezebels…….Click here for more.
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The Conflict Oriented Male Jezebel « Heaven Awaits said this on April 1, 2008 at 12:48 pm |
I had a jaw dropping read of this article. I want to congratulate the person who researched this and put this on the web. I am and have been encountering the most hurrendous evil from my husband who I am now in the process of divorcing. He has every last one of the charactersitics of the “male jezebel”. He commited adultery with a relative and has attempeted to corrupt my children with what he is doing and has been relentless in his efforts to force his way of life on us. We want nothing to do with this. He tried to cut of sources of finance, made false accusations, threats to stop child mainitenance.
Creates situation where we have to depend on him for help etc
It has been a very good eye opening read. It teaches how to counteract this spirit of jezebel. They do not understand or respect boundaries. They dont take no for an answer, they are consitently rebelious and unconcerned with the pain they cause to to others. They are obsessed with controlling their victims. If they cannot, they step-up the attack. I feel sorry for any wife or husband who has encountered this kind of attack by thier spouse. I recommend also to steer clear of them until they repent. No re-concilation or agreemnet can exist in the stae they are in, neither do they mean anything they say. They are under strong delision, believing a lie, decieveing and being decieved. Its the spirit of the last days. They will agree to anything and oppose it, confusing the very people who trsut them
God bless and thanks once again, I now realise how very serious this spirit is and that I must sever contact with my husband and his partner from my children. They are the lords, and will always be. The spirit of jezebel is a prophet killer.
If you have a ministry, especially if it is prophetic, then an attack such as this is a smoke screen to destroy it.
Praise God for the spirit of discernment he is placing on his people
Dear coretta,
Thank you for your comment. I am so sorry to see the pain you have been in. It is best to get away, and let God deal with him.
About 95% of what I write comes from personal experience, and 5% from research. So, I really know what you are going through. That is why I can put the level of detail that I do. I want people to get the help they need, and the freedom knowing it is a demonic spirit, not just “them” as a guilty, or failing person.
God bless you
marianne
I’m personally a male Jezebel and i enjoy the power it gives me.
Sawyer,
Well, any temporary power is short lived, unless you give your heart to Jesus. This power I talk about is not good power, from from Satan. When you die, all of this will be over, and you will suffer in eternity. I hope you will think about this.
blessings
marianne
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prayers against jezebel spirit said this on June 29, 2008 at 8:38 pm |
I have run across 2 Jezebel spirits. One in a male and one in a female. The spirit is every bit as deceptive and wicked as its name sake and its goal is to destroy the leadership of the true grace taught church. Many run-of-the-mill churches have been infiltrated already with this spirit as well as other spirits like the spirit of offense which Christians carry about form one body to another. These spirits manifest themselves in those who come in the name of Christianity but walk not according to the Spirit of God. One thing I noticed about both people I know who embodied the Jezebel spirit is that the were/are sickly as well as seductive and divisive when confronted. We certainly cannot label anyone with some characteristics of this spirit as being possessed or influenced by it. However, to ignore the Jezebel influence and be critical of those who discern it is pure foolery. I thank you for your web site and the courage you exhibit to make known the attack of the enemy through this spirit. “For we walk in the flesh, but we do not war in the flesh …” Thanks be to Jesus the Christ who is victorious and we who are victorious with Him because of His faith within us, the gift He has given us exceeding abundantly.
Dear Sally,
Thank you for your experience, observations and encouraging comments. Much of what I say is also from experience.
It gladdens me that you have the wisdom to see spiritual things, so that you are prepared to handle such issues.
Stay strong in the Lord.
blessings
marianne
Thank you for this clear and accurate account.
Dear Helen
Thank you for your comment.
God bless you and protect you
marianne
Need scripture for the baking and better backing.
Hi Joshua,
Thank you for the suggestion. I will see if I can add scripture to put it in better context.
blessings
marianne
A very good expose! It’s one of ou8r functions as Christians to be the light in the dark world, and light illumines darkness and exposes whatever is trying to hide or operate in subterfuge via darkness. Keep up the good work.
Hi Paul,
Thank you for your kind words.
blessings
marianne
Just discovered this in research. Sally said something about a year ago about the people she had encoutered embracing the Jezebel spirit being sickly. Another spirit often acocmpanies Jezebel. That’s the python spirit, the spirit that sucks the life out of a person or a church or close knit community. Generally this is done with an unusual amount of unusual sicknesses across the board…say nearly everyone in the choir/praise team/prayer team has the big ticket sicknesses themselves or spouses or children. MS and an accident where a person becomes quadriplegic and a few crohn’s and a couple of non-smokers’ lung cancer, a son with autism, a few grandbabies with multiple physical issues, a man whose dad and two brother committed suicide over the years and whose third brother just attempted it, etc. These can be things that are difficult to diagnose or not responding to treatment. Essentially they suck out life…joy, hope. They take the focus off God.
cully
An interesting and good observation. The purpose of any demon is to steal, kill, and destroy.
Thank you for your article. I have also encountered the Jezebel spirit. I had just finished studying prophetic ministry, and I was well on my way to continue God’s plans for my life. As a single mother, I had chosen not to be in a relationship with a man, until I felt that God was ready for me to take that path. I, unfortunately, came across a very controlling male Jezebel spirit during my wait. I knew from the moment that I met him, that something very dark posessed his soul. (Although, outwardly he wore a mask to fool those in his path). I believe that he is completely posessed with this spirit, and I am unsure if he is aware of it or not. I let him into my life, wanting to help him, but I became a victim myself. The spirit destroyed my vision and has put God’s plans for me on hold for far too long. Jezebel attacks God’s prophets, and I do not believe for a second that it was just a “coincedence” that I met this man. It is so sad for all of those around him. Not only does he control the numerous women in his life, but he also destroys that of his mother, and his sister…they are also slaves to his work. This is one of the most powerful spirits that I have ever encountered. But, GOD is much more powerful! Praise God that he made our enemies a step stool under our feet!
I am curious if you ever received any deliverence healing? I am no longer in that relationship, but the Jezebel spirit still tries to control me, through this man. He will find excuses to contact me, and it is impossible to avoid him completely due to family and friendship ties of those who surrond us. I presume that you have the same problem, as your Jezebel spirit was your husband, and you have children together. Do you still feel weak when he is around? I still find myself being weakened by his presence, when I am forced to be in the same room with him, even though I despise the spirit that lives inside of him. I pray for his soul, and all those who become posessed by this spirit.
God bless you Marianne!
HI Stacy,
It is easy when they belong to a different circle of people and you can walk away. It is harder when they belong to family and they have an excuse to show up.
When my ex shows up, I leave. He is not allowed in my house, but can come in the yard, to interact as needed. I rarely speak to him on the phone, because he will try to con me into something. When he does show up, I keep tabs on what he does, since he might try to con someone else.
I do not think you are obligated to entertain this man. You obviously have no business with him, even if others do. Do not be in the same room with him. So, let it be known – to him and others – what you think of him, and why you are keeping your distance. If you explain long enough, and repeat yourself enough, maybe others will get the point, and not have him around either.
Take care of yourself, and pray that blind eyes be opened.
Hi Marianne,
Thanks for this eye-opener. I was married to a man with the jezebel spirit for 10 years although it wasn’t until 8 years into the marriage that I realized I was being emotionally controlled. By then his abuse had turned physical. We have one child together and he has made numerous attempts to poison her mind against me. She’s only 10 so we still have contact with other, which I try to keep to a minimum. He is controlling to the point that I get physically sick at the thought of having to see or deal with him. How do you deal with this type of person when you HAVE to have contact with them?
hi TJ
Well, in dealing with this type of guy, you need to forget courtesy and fairness. You have to stand up to him, and keep support people around, so he cannot get away with anything. Jezebels are bullies. You have to be tough with them. You also need to say NO to him a lot, and say “you want this, but I don’t, and I am not going to do that.” He cannot just have his own way all the time.
It would be good to educate your daughter, or she will end up with someone like him someday also. She will have to understand that “Daddy has behavior problems.” she is old enough. Give her a simple instruction, to protect her from her own father, and also from other men later.
I have recently been inroduced to information about the Jezebel Spirit. A friend of mine has encountered her spirit and through discussing similar marital problems, I have began my own research that has lead me to you. My husband, for the past 2.5 years, has become increasingly violent, nonrepentive, accusatory and abusive both verbally and physically. He lies about anything and everything and then denies it all when he is caught and confronted. He always plays the victim and although he can be overly sweet one minute, if denied what he is wanting (sexual advances, etc) he becomes immediately and intensely adgitated and abusive. I am still researching, but I may have very well found the root of what is going on in my home. I have a daughter from a previous marriage and a son with my husband as well. I have had concerns as to how this is affecting my children and will admit that I have not left due to fear (which is what this spirit apparently feeds off of) in leaving my son with him for visitations. My son is only 2 years old. Thank you for your information and sharing your experience and knowledge. I am definitely upping my spiritual armor for this battle!
hi BBB
You certainly describe a problem personality. You need back up there, people who can take your side in a disagreement, and that will understand the “victim” is pretending.
Sometimes it is necessary to leave an abusive relationship, so make sure you do have witnesses, because if this continues, he will falsely accuse you of things, to get out of his responsibilities. I had a friend who went through this. He falsely accused her of being an unfit mother, so he could take the kids, and avoid child support.
Unless he is willing to admit his problem, and get deliverance counseling, you are in for a rough ride.
He is already accusing me of everything under the sun. No surprise. He points the finger to everyone for things he is doing. I’m trying to build a support group now. I am finding that is the hardest part. Explaining to people and asking them to get somewhat involved. Thank you for your understanding and suggestions!
BBB
Include the kids as your support group, so they will not be tricked into turning against you. Explain to them that he has emotional problems, and to talk to you about anything he tells them about you.
Include the local police, since he could get worse, and hurt you, or the kids.